Not to be confused with "war" as in fighting and machine guns and definitely not to be confused with "WAR-ATAHS" (Sorry for mentioning WARATAHS, WARR.) Before we begin....
The only way one may solve the long-distance problem is succumbing oneself to a very extreme phone-bill. And, when living at home - we don't MIND! Right, dad? right. About 3 weeks ago I asked The Warr what he was doing for Easter in London town all by himself without me (sob) and he told me he was stopping by his sister's house in Wimbledon - he'd already bought his nieces some delicious Easter choccies and he had a housemate's birthday bash on Thursday night - so even though I wasn't there with him on Easter - he still had a festive weekend planned. When he asked what I was doing I told him that our family had planned to go away to the Drakensberg... somewhere.... in the Drakensberg... called "Drakensberg something". Cause i'm awesome with details and all. He did try several times to get the exact name out of me, and dropped many hints to get me to be more specific, but he failed.
The Wednesday before our Good Friday trip, The Warr's mom gave me a call to find out how I was and how the prac teaching was going and to ask what I was doing for Easter... I tried the same "Drakensberg something" approach, which didn't work as well and Mrs Warren's mom told me to go to my dad right away and find out where we were going and if we could stop by for tea on the way. So i went right away to my dad to find out - because mom's are like that.
The next day The Warr was off for after-work Easter drinks and his housemate Chezza's birthday drinks.
The next day The Warr was off for after-work Easter drinks and his housemate Chezza's birthday drinks.
Then he lost his sneaky phone in the couch and I spent the WHOLE morning trying to wake-up his hungover-self from across the world, which is impossible to do when his phone is dead.
Anyway...... After the dad had dropped off his car at the panel-beaters to have the bumper fixed - we jumped into the moms car and were off to the Drakensberg something for a chilled Easter break - with a compulsory stop over for tea at the house of Mr and Mrs Warra - which my own mom kept protesting since "i've only met them like twice" but the tea (and wine) was delicious and the company grand even though The Warr wasn't there (sob again). Eventually we made our way to the Drakensberg-something and checked in. We decided to go for some drinks at the bar and my dad remarked that I seemed a little un-spritely as my usual self:
My lovely family made me feel very lame very quickly so I put that thought to bed immediately. (Not without a very extended period of chirping from the brother). The dad then disappeared to ask the receptionist for things to do in the area and she suggested that we go up to the top of the golf clubhouse and have a look at the view of the resort and do a bit of star-gazing. So off we trekked, mini snack pack and drinks in hand and there we were, with our wine, chilling at the top of the golf clubhouse
We had a few drinks at the "very popular star-gazing venue" which the receptionist had told us about (there was no one else there) and I was in the middle of a very intense conversation with the little brother about how he should wear his hair... {Without me thinking anything of it, my mother had picked up my camera and started to snap away...}
"you see, if you grow the front a bit longer and then you just use a tiny bit of gel, but not too much cause that's super trashy - then i think you should cut the sides a little shorter - like here... let me just show you...."
When all of a sudden out in the darkness....
"so... if the sides are shorter like i suggested, then at least you will be able to style up the top - but not too long because then it gets a bit too floppy...."
Che feels big man-hug from behind and giant red-something in her face...
(this is a true story, i really very nearly did fall off the balcony. The falling-off-the-balcony was also accompanied with a lot of screaming, inappropriate words, wild yelping and erractic-cave-man-like "dance-moves") I'm very cool when I'm in fright. (particularly awesome when both his family and my family are watching me like I'm a wild-thing).
Before going further, I would like to mention A Beautiful Mess - if you follow indieBerries you will know that Elsie's blog is one of my absolute favourites and The Warr has taken to glancing over Elsie's blog from time to time - just to show that he cares :) A while back Elsie posted about making a DIY heart sweater. The Warr sent me the link to that post ages ago and told me "i'm gonna make that for you" ..... me: yeah..... sure....
and the next thing he was standing on the top of a mountain at a golf clubhouse overlooking The Drakensberg resort and handing over a gorgeous hand-made heart sweater.
He even sent me the video to prove that he did it all on his own. Bearing in mind that this is not a girly-man type. This is a rugby playing, fly-fishing, beer-drinking, iron-pumping one-of-the-boys stepping out of his comfort zone for the woman he loves.
(sweet) <3
Following the sweater-session and the calming down of my frayed-shocked nerves - he took my hand and led me away from our giddy folks and to a golf-tee overlooking the Drakensberg Resort. Then he pulled out a leather-bound book (which he made) and began paging through it - (pics were taken day after)
HELLO YOU!
HOW ARE YOU?
I'M GLAD.
SURPRISED?!
ME TOO!
MY LITTLE HEART SKIPPED A BEAT WHEN I SAW YOU
HOW AM I DOING?
[smiley face]
FOREVER
WOULD YOU LIKE THAT?
THOUGHT SO
WOULD YOU LOVE TO DO ALL THAT FOR ME TOO?
I CAN'T WAIT!
PS. YOU DO ALREADY
(me definitely crying)
(me definitely crying)
I KNOW I'LL MAKE YOU AS AMAZINGLY HAPPY AS YOU MAKE ME
I HAVE THE PERFECT IDEA
LET'S GROW OLD AND FORGETFUL HAPPILY TOGETHER
DO YOU LIKE THAT IDEA TOO?
And then Mr Warren Dyer got onto one knee and asked me to marry him.
i said yes.
There was a lof of hugging and crying and hand-holding and kissing before we made our way back to the parents...
There was a lof of hugging and crying and hand-holding and kissing before we made our way back to the parents...
this is me.
(so very very very very happy)
Showing the dads the leather book.
And then my parents (who had been in on the whole surprise for months) - presented Warr with an engagement gift - 1 x giant canvas picture of Che -
hahaha
(me trying to hide canvas. it is not possible)
(me trying to hide canvas. it is not possible)
but really mom, dad... why? lol :) :)
* Veuve Clicquot for all! *
124 comments :
I love you my gorgeous fiancé xxx
INCREDIBLE story :) know this isn't really appropriate but I love your typography at the beginning too (design nerd!)
Congratulations guys!!
Wishing you all the best:)
Ps I think that this is the coolest blog post that I have ever read!
Lots of love
Lulu
Awesomest isn't it?
Congrats you guys...
Got me teary-eyed Che! Congratulations to you both! So romantic :)
thank you thank you!! :) SO thrilled!
hahaha... it's totally appropriate - made with care and love :)
thank you so much Lulu - so very very excited! :) x
auw che loved reading this, was great to get the timeline too which had confused me :) so happy for you!!
Awesome story...Very happy for you guys ;)
Wishing you all the happiness
Moses
how incredible, che! congratulations! what an amazing engagement story :)
Congrats dear. this is insane. i'm so happy for you.not only is this my favourite blog, but this is now my favourite post. wishing you all the happiness in the world.
aww how lovely! wishing you both many happy and blissful years together
Congratulations Che, loved your blog!!
Much love Sharon Jesson xxx (Seh's mom)
Ok, I am CRYING. My mascara is literally running and now I have to go to work like this. Congrats guys - this is the best engagement story ever. Can't wait to track your wedding plans and part two.
Oh my word, "The Warr" has made life extremely tough for the boyfriend of any Indie Berrie reader who plans on proposing. Talk about setting the bar at an exceptional height. I had tears. Such an incredible story, so happy for you guys. xxx
Congrats again Che, wow this is such an awesome blog post! Loved every minute. Must see you soon x
Che' - What a lovely blog post. So very happy for you both. Lots of Love from us all XXX
best post ever!! now i need a coffee to calm myself down lol
congratulations.
Yay!!!!! Congrats Che and Warr :) What an AMAZING proposal. Gonna have to show my man this post, PRESSURE! Ha, Short of elephants performing a flash mob, he could not have done any better! Congrats again. PS: saw the ring on Instagram.... Gorgeous! You must be on cloud 9.
Kez x
wow! congratulations!!
Best of wishes!!
Such a special proposal!! :)
Your man did well, he's definitely a keeper!
Ps: I'm sitting in coffee republic reading this, crying...
So happy for you :)
What an awesome story! Couldn't scroll down fast enough! Congratulations!
Oh my GOOOOOOOOODDDDNESSSS~!!! 축하해요 ^^
This is theee most romantic story EVER!!!
Congratulations, Che and Warra!!!
Wow!!! Geez reading this was exciting. Congrats Cher, wish you ALL the best. Looking forward to part two :-)
P.S you're so beautiful <3
Wow - what a special evening. Your story has brought happy tears to my eyes. Congratulations! Thanks for sharing your amazing engagement tale.
Oh my heavens, Che! CONGRATULATIONS! That is the most amazing, romantic story ever!
YeaH..... u ARE THE MAN...
Congratulations, this is sooo beautiful, more romantic then any mushy movie scene. love ur blog
I'm almost tearful, yay you guys. That's SO romantic and SO damn blimmin lovely. Congrats congrats to you both.
Totally crying right now (I'm cool like that)
Beautiful awesome and lovely happy post.
Totally crying right now (I'm cool like that)
Beautiful awesome and lovely happy post.
Such a gorgeous post/story, I read it twice! Too good! Am totally a Warr fan now - what a clever, sneaky man! Congratulations lovely.
Oh gosh, I just cried and I reread it too! I am so thrilled and happy for you - Warr is amazing, that jumper is amazing, that book is amazing, your parents are amazing :) argh!!!!
anyway, now I've calmed down and got that out :) congratulations!!
p.s. I saw the ring on instagram too but didn't realise there was a potential mr che, so now I'm going to have to look again, hurray!
Congratulations to you both:)
Amazing Che. Congratulations to you both, extremely exciting times ahead. Wuold love to catch up some time.
what an awesome proposal!! Congrats!! i wish you both the best!! xx
OMGEE, that was an amazing proposal story - so romantic. So happy for you. Congrats!
there were elephants performing a flash mob - that's post two. :) haha cloud one hundred and nine :) xx
awww my !!! so so soooo cute!!!!
hugest hugs!!!!
Congrats! What a gorgeous proposal story. I love how you portrayed it. :) x
Ah! Awesome man! Great way that you've told the story - love the photos and CONGRATS!!!!!
Fabulous post, just loved it!
What an amazing post! Congrats to you both! Can't wait for the wedding posts in future :-) x
Awesome Che! Congrats what a great way to get engaged - sooo romantic! :)
OMG I'm crying ..for real - you are so lovely che and I wish you both all the Happiness in the world :) xxx
FLIPPEN EPIC!!!!!!!! Oh my goodness!!!!! I'm so happy for you!!!!
Congratulations! Very awesome way to propose - Your man sounds like he knows what he's doing :) I wish you all the best for the planning of the wedding.
am literally sobbing at my desk. that's the most beautiful story ever. Congratulations Che <3 so happy for you!
P.S. I'm a photographer so let me know if you need an engagement shoot hehe :)
Amazing Amazing Amazing. So happy, you deserve every bit of this story. Hope the rest of your life together is like this :) xxx
This is seriously like the best blog post and engagement story I have ever read! So romantic and thought through! This is true love at its best :) Congrats to both of you..
What an amazinnngggggg engagement story <3 So happy for you & The Warr!
xx
lovit !
lovely story, lovely life, lovely man, lovely lady. *tears everywhere.
all the best to both of you!!
xx
too perfect! can't wait to see you guys!!
Can't wait for the wedding blog post :)
Oh this is so special - what an amazing love story - movie script worthy ;) congrats che and the warr. Maybe you have a lifetime of happiness together!
OMG! sooooo beautiful! :) best wishes to you and Warren, Che - so wonderful seeing two people who are really in love! hoorah! :)
OH MY GOSH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is just amazing, and WHAT A GUY! Seriously, what kind of guy would actually sew a jersery and put so much DIY effort into that beautiful book! I'm so over the moon happy for you and I absolutly loved readying this! Gave me goosebumps!
wow, wow, wow!!! a modern-day fairy tale... i am soooo jealous right now... wish someone would love me like that!
two great creative minds and hearts coming together! i think you guys deserve an Oscar for originality!!!
Tears!!!
May you always know and feel the joy and love you felt in that moment, for all the days of your lives together, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, forever and ever.
X
MY kinda guy :) :) :) :) thank you so much for the lovely wishes! so very happy! :)
hooorah!!!! i think so too!! :)
but first... all the wedding-DIY posts..... ... .. ;)
thank you thank you <3
thank you Mands :)
mmm.... where are you based?!.... :)
thank you for your kind words! so over-over-the moon! :)
and all the wedding DIY posts! :)
thank you so much! <3
YAY YAY!! YAY!!!! thank you so much Rhianne! im so very excited and can't wait for all the wedding planning fun!! :) yippeee!!
yay!! i'm a Warr fan too! :) :) thank you so much! :)
thank you very much :) EXPERIENCING this was exciting! :) :)
haha i need some calming too. coffee date? :)
indeed he has! and i hope all indieBerries readers (esp sarah-faye) find the prince they are looking for <3
thank you so much for the lovely comment! :) so very happy!
waterproof mascara! DON'T YOU KNOW ANYTHING?!?!! kekeke :) but seriously, thank you so much, im so very happy! can't wait to share all the wedding planning fun! <3
thank you so so much Katyha! im so very excited! and I can't wait to put your beautiful tea-towel and robot measuring cups in our new house! :)
thank you Moses :)
thank you so much MEJ :) I was actually saying today how I hope this feeling lasts forever - its such a beautiful wonderful thing. So very blessed. YEEEHA! :)
Wowzers Che! That's wonderful and a beautiful story too. I wish you the best on this next chapter in your life xoxoxo
i love the story you have lived... it's so real and so incredibly amazing! <3
Aaaah, gorgeous !
OH MY GOSH! This is THE MOST ROMANTIC ENGAGEMENT STORY I''VE EVER HEARD OF! I'm so, so, so, so, so happy for you!
Seems like my next post got lost somewhere hehe. Here's how it went: "P.S. I'm a photographer, would love to do an engagement shoot for you!"
haha i saw that message and i even replied to ask where you are based?!! that would be awesome! :) x
thank you so much Fiona! :)
Simply beautiful. What a story to tell for years to come! Congrats!! Leanne.
Che I finally got to read your story!! I love it! I'm so happy for you <3 That's really sweet :)
WOW!!!!! I AM SOOOO BEHIND!! I'm catching up now and Indieberries is ENGAGED!!! Woooohoooo!!
I think this is the sweetest story ever... and the way he made that book is just so Che! How thoughtful and romantic and I'm gushing now... BUT I'm SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!!!!
xxxxx
Sorry I'm so late in wishing you... Better late than never, right? Eek!
ooooh wow this is so beutiful..................had me in tears
Sorry for the late reply - Only saw your comment now! I'm based in Durbanville, Cape Town. You can check out my website at www.aliciasphotography.co.za :) Would be awesome to do a shoot for you if you're in the area x
haha im going to make an animated movie out of it for my kids one day!
love this story - did get the basics from Jen! Congratulations you two and lots of love and laughter and happy wedding planning. Lots of love
thank you so much! we are both SO SO happy! looking forward to all the exciting wedding planning! yippppeeeee!!!! :) :)
Awwwww so very very very special and I just LOVE the pic of you wearing War's jersey.
Congradulations on your engagement Che! I'm sure you're looking everywhere else BUT Chapel at S Anne's for other options for your wedding venue! ;) I hope you have a special day and an even more magical marriage and family! I'm definatley and looking forward to keeping up with you via blogger! M~
Loving the 'Bling' #comeon!
I don't know you at all, but my bf and I also do long distance, and I also taught in Korea and your story makes me so happy. I hope ours turns out this good too. It's looking promising so far :)
ah! yay! i hope your love story turns out just as amazing as mine! long-distance/Soko... it seems you're on the right track! :) :) thanks for reading! :)
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ah thank you so much! I'm a very lucky (and happy) girl!!
Ahh, this is such a lovely story. How incredibly romantic. x
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